It turns out that community, human connection, companionship… that is what keeps me sane.”

What are your fears and/or concerns right now?

At-risk loved ones, or myself, truly suffering and then having to die alone. Nobody should die alone. Financial hardship, because it's not only a logistical concern, but it can really affect someone's mental health. Not doing enough to help, and not sure how. Spending way too much time alone and losing my mind. That's real, and you have to be strong to conquer the demons.

What have you learned from living this new normal?

I thought I was this deep introvert. I guess I still am, but what a wake up call. It turns out that community, human connection, companionship, and sharing physical energy – that is what keeps me sane. Humans are made for each other. It's the little things that keep me going. A conversation in line at the grocery store, saying hello to a neighbor. And now, not being able to give or receive a hug, that's just heartbreaking. Up until now, I didn't know that every hug I've ever received was such a big part of feeling validated, safe, connected, and loved.

Do you think anything positive will come from all of this?

I hope that we’ll have more compassion, empathy, and open-heartedness towards one another. It’s nice to see all the community initiatives and fundraisers to support those in need. As for our country, I hope this will open a lot of people's eyes and allow them to see a little less narrow.

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