#OnHoldAtHome with Angela & family
“These are challenging times for everyone, and it’s important we shed light on the positives.”
What are your fears and/or concerns right now?
The COVID-19 pandemic affects everyone, everywhere. But it affects different groups of people differently, deepening existing inequalities. This is especially true for Black girls because the whole system is already against them. Unfortunately, these conditions will maintain and exacerbate the issues Black girls face.
What have you learned from living this new normal?
As a family, we’ve learned a whole new way of living in terms of being mindful of time with each other. We’re not taking in-person social interactions or quality family time for granted. These are challenging times for everyone, and it’s important we shed light on the positives. We’ve learned something new and found creative ways to celebrate. I’ve also figured out how to pivot my organization, Girls For A Change, to still provide a program that will be of service and support to Black girls as we strive to build their bright and shiny futures.
How has the pandemic raised awareness of racial and social inequality?
The pandemic is especially disrupting the lives of women and "bringing to the forefront the gender inequalities that impact women's lives every day." (Western New York Women’s Foundation) Exposing racism… yet again. It’s had a huge impact on Black women by negatively affecting their finances, mental health, access to healthy food and household essentials, while they’re still trying to save everyone else.
Do you think anything positive will come from all of this?
The COVID-19 crisis doesn’t only have dark sides. It also provides opportunities to improve our lives and organizations. People can reimagine how to do anything in the world.
READ THE STORIES
Click on any of the images below to learn more about what's on the minds of fellow Richmonders. From the pandemic to protests, our community has traveled through months of uncertainty, introspection and reflection. Sharing stories gives us an opportunity to learn, connect and grow with one another in the hopes of cultivating a more compassionate, open-minded and empathetic city to live in.
“A bright future is possible, but only if we get to work building it.”
“There has to be a good reason for all this chaos.”
“When life gets back to normal, I hope that there will be echoes of grace in the memory of hardship.”
“These are challenging times for everyone, and it’s important we shed light on the positives.”
“I think we can truly grow as a society from this experience.”
“I do not think we will ever return to normal, but we are trying to live each day guided by hope and gratefulness.”
“Black lives have mattered for centuries, and will continue to matter in the future.”
“It turns out that community, human connection, companionship… that is what keeps me sane.”
“When times are tough, it’s important to help and be open minded to those around you.”
“This is an opportunity for us to search within ourselves and check for our own privileges.”
“The world has been at a standstill, with clear minds and hearts – the truth rises.”
“I want to be able to say that I impacted at least one person’s life before I leave this earth.”
“I love my job and helping people. I think I’m right where I’m supposed to be right now.”
“I hope we learn to live with less. Be kinder with ourselves and others.”
“The pandemic has given us a certain amount of appreciation for routine and our home.”
“I hope people will have a new appreciation for their freedoms and cherish them.”
“Sometimes we need to experience darkness to appreciate the light.”
“Some will find greater faith and put their lives in clearer perspective.”
‘This time together is definitely bringing us closer together as a family.”
“People are so resilient. I guess I always knew that, but this is proving it every day.”
“We’re finding solace in places and things we had not realized we were missing.”
“I’ve learned that I am much more an optimist than a pessimist.”
“We need each other to bring joy and meaning to our lives.”
“We’re all having to dig deep and get through this as a whole.”
“It’s difficult to imagine what the next year or so of my life might look like.”
“Having had COVID-19, I’m living proof that the virus is brutal and can harm very healthy people.”
“We are afraid to acknowledge our trauma and deal with it.”
“Yes, we argue, but we also laugh more now.”
“In many ways, COVID-19 is clearly exposing long-standing issues in our community.”
“Communities are coming together. Relationships are more meaningful.”