#OnHoldAtHome with the Knopf Family
“A bright future is possible, but only if we get to work building it.”
What are your fears and/or concerns right now?
Michael: I’m nervous about the unknown hardships and dangers in the weeks, months, and years ahead. I worry about how the economic downturn will impact our communal institutions – like my synagogue – and the damage it will do to the fabric of the community.
Adira: While my kids continue to impress me with their resilience and ability to find joy in our daily lives, I fear the long term impact that this will have on all of them. At the moment, I see no end in sight.
What have you learned from living this new normal?
Michael: I’ve learned anew the infinite and immeasurable ways in which we’re all connected. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Our welfare depends on everyone’s liberation. Fear can keep us vigilant, but also make us paranoid, paralyzed and selfish. I’ve learned to reframe fear as love. If I’m loving, my concern shifts, not only to caring for myself, but for others. I’ve learned how essential hope is, despite that I sometimes have to forcibly pull myself out of anxiety and despair.
Adira: I’ve learned that I’m far more resilient than I thought I could be. I remember thinking in March, “if I have to do this for more than two weeks, I don’t know what I’m going to do”. Here we are almost five months in. I don’t take that accomplishment lightly.
What are your thoughts on how the pandemic has brought to the forefront issues of racial and social inequality?
Michael: It was clear from the beginning that the burden of this moment is being disproportionately born by those already the most vulnerable with the fewest resources. Our leaders didn’t adequately prepare for this crisis and have thoroughly failed in guiding us through it.
Adira: I think we’re at a critical moment in history where we can make significant change to reflect a more just and equal society. I am hopeful that change will come in November.
Do you think anything positive will come from all of this?
Michael: I hope that we will summon our righteous indignation in the service of building a new world, a thoroughly inclusive and perfectly just world, upon the ruins of the one that crumbled in this catastrophe. A bright future is possible, but only if we get to work building it.
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Click on any of the images below to learn more about what's on the minds of fellow Richmonders. From the pandemic to protests, our community has traveled through months of uncertainty, introspection and reflection. Sharing stories gives us an opportunity to learn, connect and grow with one another in the hopes of cultivating a more compassionate, open-minded and empathetic city to live in.
“A bright future is possible, but only if we get to work building it.”
“There has to be a good reason for all this chaos.”
“When life gets back to normal, I hope that there will be echoes of grace in the memory of hardship.”
“These are challenging times for everyone, and it’s important we shed light on the positives.”
“I think we can truly grow as a society from this experience.”
“I do not think we will ever return to normal, but we are trying to live each day guided by hope and gratefulness.”
“Black lives have mattered for centuries, and will continue to matter in the future.”
“It turns out that community, human connection, companionship… that is what keeps me sane.”
“When times are tough, it’s important to help and be open minded to those around you.”
“This is an opportunity for us to search within ourselves and check for our own privileges.”
“The world has been at a standstill, with clear minds and hearts – the truth rises.”
“I want to be able to say that I impacted at least one person’s life before I leave this earth.”
“I love my job and helping people. I think I’m right where I’m supposed to be right now.”
“I hope we learn to live with less. Be kinder with ourselves and others.”
“The pandemic has given us a certain amount of appreciation for routine and our home.”
“I hope people will have a new appreciation for their freedoms and cherish them.”
“Sometimes we need to experience darkness to appreciate the light.”
“Some will find greater faith and put their lives in clearer perspective.”
‘This time together is definitely bringing us closer together as a family.”
“People are so resilient. I guess I always knew that, but this is proving it every day.”
“We’re finding solace in places and things we had not realized we were missing.”
“I’ve learned that I am much more an optimist than a pessimist.”
“We need each other to bring joy and meaning to our lives.”
“We’re all having to dig deep and get through this as a whole.”
“It’s difficult to imagine what the next year or so of my life might look like.”
“Having had COVID-19, I’m living proof that the virus is brutal and can harm very healthy people.”
“We are afraid to acknowledge our trauma and deal with it.”
“Yes, we argue, but we also laugh more now.”
“In many ways, COVID-19 is clearly exposing long-standing issues in our community.”
“Communities are coming together. Relationships are more meaningful.”