#OnHoldAtHome with Raquel & her Dad
“It’s difficult to imagine what the next year or so of my life might look like.”
What are your fears and/or concerns right now?
There’s a lot of speculation going on about what the future might bring for college students, especially for me studying in New York City, the epicenter of COVID-19 in the U.S. Every day I realize how much of my life was on campus. I was housed, fed, and taught – I was establishing my adult life. While there, I felt a clear sense of trajectory and purpose that has faded the longer I sit in my childhood home waiting. It’s difficult to imagine what the next year or so of my life might look like. My future is very much out of my hands, but in whose hands it is now, I'm not sure.
What have you learned from living this new normal?
Since I had to move out quickly, a fellow student packed up my dorm room. We sat on FaceTime and went from drawer to drawer, keeping the important things and throwing away anything not worth shipping. In the end, my entire life was condensed into five boxes. I've spent time thinking about the ways we consume things. If this were to happen again, would I pack the same things? I hope I don't forget this as I move into the new periods, homes and relationships of my life.
Do you think anything positive will come from all of this?
The country's eyes have never been so open to the flaws in capitalism, the two-party system, the prison industrial complex, world politics, etc. The frustrations we’ve faced in our powerlessness will, I hope, inspire us to take on these flaws with renewed vigor. I think being exposed to COVID-19 has created a healthy and productive fear that will motivate us to tackle the conditions that made the pandemic so disastrous to being with.
READ THE STORIES
Click on any of the images below to learn more about what's on the minds of fellow Richmonders. From the pandemic to protests, our community has traveled through months of uncertainty, introspection and reflection. Sharing stories gives us an opportunity to learn, connect and grow with one another in the hopes of cultivating a more compassionate, open-minded and empathetic city to live in.
“A bright future is possible, but only if we get to work building it.”
“There has to be a good reason for all this chaos.”
“When life gets back to normal, I hope that there will be echoes of grace in the memory of hardship.”
“These are challenging times for everyone, and it’s important we shed light on the positives.”
“I think we can truly grow as a society from this experience.”
“I do not think we will ever return to normal, but we are trying to live each day guided by hope and gratefulness.”
“Black lives have mattered for centuries, and will continue to matter in the future.”
“It turns out that community, human connection, companionship… that is what keeps me sane.”
“When times are tough, it’s important to help and be open minded to those around you.”
“This is an opportunity for us to search within ourselves and check for our own privileges.”
“The world has been at a standstill, with clear minds and hearts – the truth rises.”
“I want to be able to say that I impacted at least one person’s life before I leave this earth.”
“I love my job and helping people. I think I’m right where I’m supposed to be right now.”
“I hope we learn to live with less. Be kinder with ourselves and others.”
“The pandemic has given us a certain amount of appreciation for routine and our home.”
“I hope people will have a new appreciation for their freedoms and cherish them.”
“Sometimes we need to experience darkness to appreciate the light.”
“Some will find greater faith and put their lives in clearer perspective.”
‘This time together is definitely bringing us closer together as a family.”
“People are so resilient. I guess I always knew that, but this is proving it every day.”
“We’re finding solace in places and things we had not realized we were missing.”
“I’ve learned that I am much more an optimist than a pessimist.”
“We need each other to bring joy and meaning to our lives.”
“We’re all having to dig deep and get through this as a whole.”
“It’s difficult to imagine what the next year or so of my life might look like.”
“Having had COVID-19, I’m living proof that the virus is brutal and can harm very healthy people.”
“We are afraid to acknowledge our trauma and deal with it.”
“Yes, we argue, but we also laugh more now.”
“In many ways, COVID-19 is clearly exposing long-standing issues in our community.”
“Communities are coming together. Relationships are more meaningful.”